June is finally here and that means that the kids are leaving for camp soon! College kids and older teens are already there sweeping bunks and putting fresh coats of paint on buildings. They are about to face a tough summer but one filled with lots of joy, activity and pride. They typically go up a few weeks in advance to help the camp get into shape after the long winter and receive training in CPR, swim certifications, conflict resolution and how to help kids through homesickness. They also get to enjoy being together as many have been coming since they were young campers. Parents are busy at home following the packing list sent by the program their child is attending. Items are labeled and special items from home are lovingly packed. Soon the bags will be picked up and take their long journey to camp.
Tips on Trips and Camps advisors are busy scheduling camp visits. Collectively we will see about 75 camps. We stare at the maps, trying to figure out how many camps to see in one day, the best route and how we can squeeze in one more stop! It’s like a huge puzzle. It is one of the highlights of our job to see the camps in action and learn about what makes each camp special.
Every camp and director have their own personality which informs the culture of each camp. Once we understand this, we can suggest programs that are the right fit for a family. What are the kids like? How does the director interact with campers? How does the facility look? Are they well maintained? What does the dining room energy feel like? Is it palpable? Does the waterfront feel safe and organized? These are the questions that we need answered to get a feel for the overall experience at each camp.
These visits (plus the end of summer feedback from our families) are what helps us when working with a family. The summer prior to when you want your child to attend is a great time to visit! We can help you plan that visit, just ask. Matching the camp to the children in your family is a team effort, but the result will be finding a camp which aligns with your child’s personality, your family values and what you both hope to get out of the camp experience.
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HOW TO MAKE THE WINTER GO FASTER WHEN ALL YOU CAN DO IS THINK ABOUT SUMMER
Winter can be a very long season, especially if you have kids. How can you spend quality time with your kids and get them excited for summer camp? Organize some of their favorite summer activities in your home. This will even get them to share some of their summer stories with you as they are reminded of summer camp. Here are some ideas:
- Have a bead party – buy this kit and invite over some friends to make friendship bracelets.
- Find an indoor gym and have their bunk friends meet up for any game of their choice
- Create a cooking activity just like camp! Did you know that Cooking is one of the most popular camp activities at practically every camp we visit during the summer? No camper ever turns down a homemade cookie. Here are some great recipes to start.
- Long weekends? No problem – a bunk sleepover will solve any boredom blues. Added bonus, you get to know your child’s camp friends better
While your kids are having some summer fun, check out this article to ensure your kids have the best summer!
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You’ve Got This!
Everyone at Tips on Trips and Camps thinks you’re doing a great job parenting through these crazy times. We thought you needed to hear that today. We’re all parents too, and we know how not having any control over how the future looks or feels for our children (or ourselves) is a challenging place to live. As summer program advisors, we are feeling hopeful about sending kids off on their adventures next summer. Every day we hear from our directors about their plans for a safe and fun summer 2021. While next summer may still look different than pre-COVID days, every sleepaway camp and teen program is working hard to create pandemic-proof plans for your children. Please let us know if you want to indulge in some escapist summer planning – we’re ready to chat whenever you feel ready.
Riding the Coronacoaster
Have you seen the meme defining a “coronacoaster” – the ups and downs of living in a pandemic? I don’t know about you, but that perfectly captures me and my wildly shifting emotions. Interestingly I’m finding my kids are more even keel than I am. They’re teenagers, and like everyone’s children, they had to abandon their spring and summer plans. I’ve found them to be resilient, creative, and accepting in the faces of the losses they have sustained. As we head towards the fall, and all the uncertainty that brings, they are saying they will be OK no matter what. While a lot of their reactions have to do with their personalities, I can also see that the lessons learned at sleepaway camps and teen programs helped prepare them for this tough time. They are making the best of what the world has to offer and still having fun. They’ve found new ways to meet their goals, follow their interests, and enjoy the summer, all while staying safe. I can connect all the ways they’ve managed during the pandemic to things that a child may navigate away at camp or on a teen trip. The coronacoaster is not my cup of tea, but as it’s the only attraction open this summer, I’m going to do my best to notice the best parts of the ride.
Grieving for Summer
The camp and summer program cancellations are coming in fast these days, and we know there are many disappointed and grieving kids and families. Whether it was to be a child’s first summer away or they are a seasoned camper, it’s hard to let go of summer plans amid so many other changes in our lives. Here’s some advice we’ve gathered:
- Expect that you and your children will go through a range of emotions in the days and weeks ahead. Tell your kids (and remind yourself) that grief comes and goes, and you might all have sad days throughout the summer and beyond. You can also let them know that you’ll all also have happy days and fun moments even while feeling sad about camp.
- Recognize the stress that you may feel as a result of your child’s lack of summer plans. Take as many breaths as you need until you can find a way to move forward. There are still some options for kids. We can help you explore if any of the available programs are a good fit.
- Encourage your child to express their feelings and memories about camp. Talking, journaling, Zooming, singing and dancing, doing camp arts and crafts, building a campfire, or whatever feels right, are all ways for kids to access their emotions. Kids of all ages can benefit from having their feelings named, so parents can help their kids by identifying what they may be experiencing.
- It may be reassuring to talk about how staying home is helping all their dear camp friends and counselors remain safe.
- Start making plans for summer 2021! Camp and program directors are already hard at work on next summer, and they are counting the minutes until they are back with your children.
We are right there with your family grieving the loss of all those future memories, experiences, and friendships. We are here to support you – please let us know if we can help.
COVID 19 – WE ARE ALL FIRST TIMERS
It dawned on me today that the way we are all facing the challenges of COVID-19 is very similar to what we ask our children to do on overnight summer experiences.
We ask them to:
- Go into the unknown
- Listen to the people in charge
- Ask for help if needed
- Advocate and negotiate for themselves.
- Have fun in a setting that is very different from what they are used to
Just like when we put them on the bus to summer camp or the plane to a teen trip, we can remind them now (and ourselves) of their resilience and skills to cope with tough days. We all have inner resources to call on through the coming weeks, and just like attending a summer program, it will be an opportunity for personal growth for us all. The Tips Team is hoping all your challenges are met with optimism, good humor, and health.
LGBTQ? Summer is for everyone!
As summer advisers we pride ourselves in the recommendations we make so that every child can have a wonderful summer experience.
Increasingly, we are hearing from parents of LGBTQ kids. This may include transgender and gender non-conforming children of any age. They call us searching for an overnight camp or summer teen experience where their child will feel at home. As advisers on summer programs, we are witnessing a shift in the mindset and the narrative in our industry as these numbers are rising. Camps are faced with decisions about where to bunk kids and teen trips grapple with which tent does a camper get assigned. The wonderful aspect of these challenges, the summer programs tell us, is that campers are universally accepting and don’t struggle the way their parents or summer program directors do. We watch as summer camps and teen experiences find creative ways to work this through. There are camps for LGBTQ kids. At some the issues are addressed specifically, others are simply a caring and embracing community where all campers are welcome. The latter might be a good camp for trans kids or non-binary kids as well. An arts camp this summer will have a non-gender specific cabin that will embrace all gender expressions.
At Tips on Trips and Camps we have ongoing discussions about these topics so we can help lead as the industry navigates this ever-changing landscape. Interesting times!