Have you seen the meme defining a “coronacoaster” – the ups and downs of living in a pandemic? I don’t know about you, but that perfectly captures me and my wildly shifting emotions. Interestingly I’m finding my kids are more even keel than I am. They’re teenagers, and like everyone’s children, they had to abandon their spring and summer plans. I’ve found them to be resilient, creative, and accepting in the faces of the losses they have sustained. As we head towards the fall, and all the uncertainty that brings, they are saying they will be OK no matter what. While a lot of their reactions have to do with their personalities, I can also see that the lessons learned at sleepaway camps and teen programs helped prepare them for this tough time. They are making the best of what the world has to offer and still having fun. They’ve found new ways to meet their goals, follow their interests, and enjoy the summer, all while staying safe. I can connect all the ways they’ve managed during the pandemic to things that a child may navigate away at camp or on a teen trip. The coronacoaster is not my cup of tea, but as it’s the only attraction open this summer, I’m going to do my best to notice the best parts of the ride.
When Do I Begin The Search For Sleepaway Camp?
You have already decided your child is ready for his first sleepaway camp experience. So when is the best time to begin the search? I am often asked., “Am I too early?” or “Am I too late?”
The answer is it is never too early or too late to begin to explore the world of camps. If you know you will be enrolling for 2021, Winter or Spring are great times to begin to explore options and plan tours of camps for Summer 2020. But if you are like most parents, planning that far ahead is not how you operate, so you will begin the search for 2020 whenever you have time between now and Spring. Here are some answers to the questions I am asked most often about timing:
- Will the “best” camps already be full?
In a word, NO! Just because a camp fills sooner or later does not determine whether that camp is “better.” When a camp fills depends on a number of factors including size, types of sessions and numbers of returning campers, to name a few.
- Should I be visiting the camp before enrolling?
A visit is NOT a prerequisite to finding the right fit. If you have the foresight to begin a search a full year or more ahead, you will want to visit, but most families do not. In fact, many camp directors will come to your home if you ask them. And if this does not happen, don’t worry; an extensive phone call with the director and/or a skype or facetime can work just as well. A visit in the “off” season can sometimes be a turn off as campers are not there, and many of the facilities are shut down.
- Is Spring too late to look for camps?
NO! While ideally you will begin your search the previous Fall or Winter, many wonderful camps still have space in certain age groups or sessions well into Spring. It will help if you are flexible with which sessions/dates your child attends.
Holiday time is the perfect time to think Summer. Beginning a camp search over the Winter break is a wonderful gift to your child.
Our 2019 Holiday Gift Guide!
Tips on Trips and Camps advisors compiled our list of great must-haves for every
camper, traveler, and summer student! Here are a few of our favorite things…
We found some great games for the bunk, tent, or dorm room! Try your luck at Five Crowns or Left Center Right. Laugh with your friends as they act out dance moves with Truth or Dance. And test your mental quickness with Scattergories Categories or Taco Cat Goat Cheese Pizza.
Deck the bunk with lots of fun items such as a pillow with arms! Capture the moments with a Fuji Instax Mini Camera. And amuse your friends with the Coke vs. Pepsi or Would You Rather series of books.
Every traveler needs these fantastic accessories. Packing cubes will keep the messiest kid organized. An Eno hammock is a must-have for relaxing on the trail. And don’t underestimate the value of a good, battery-operated fan!
If you are looking for more places to find bunk or dorm décor, color war accessories, and other fun stuff, check out these great websites: Confetti and Friends, Dormify, and Camprageous.
Happy shopping!
Sailing, Soccer, and Soft-Skills
A recent Forbes article discussed how overnight camps do a great job teaching kids the soft skills they need to flourish as adults. Sleepaway camp is a multi-layered experience that prepares children for college and beyond.
Teamwork, conflict resolution, problem-solving, leadership and communication skills, resilience, decision-making, empathy, and friendship building are just some of the ways children can grow when children attend camp. Each camp day provides so many opportunities for growth – setting a goal, learning a new skill, trying a new activity, navigating friendships, being a team captain, earning a reward for a job well done, comforting a bunkmate, completing a chore, and more.
I see how sleepaway camp helped with the development of soft-skills in my own house. Once our children have exposure to all these skills at camp, then it’s easy for us to continue herding them toward independence when they return home. My oldest child started college this fall, and he has done a great job transitioning to an independent life. From self-care to advocating for himself, I can see how his camp experience provided a kind and stable base for him to learn and try out all the skills he needs to create a joyful and purposeful life. I am thankful for his camp experiences and it is part of the reason I enjoy helping other families find the best camps and programs for their children. Please let us know how we can help your family.
Camper’s Best Friend
As camp advisors, we are so lucky to visit camps each summer. In addition to meeting loads of happy campers and connecting with directors, we also meet many four-legged friends. At so many of our favorite summer places, the camp dog is an integral part of camp life!
The happiest dogs are camp dogs! Who wouldn’t love endless scratches and belly rubs, plenty of room to roam, and so many kids to meet? Many camp directors understand the positive impact a dog can have on the camp community.
Though some children are understandably afraid, many kids love animals, and dogs in particular. It’s a different matter that some kids might be afraid because of allergies. A friendly, tail-wagging dog can be the perfect remedy for homesickness, providing a spirit boost to a child who may need it. The dog can be the glue that helps bond friendships and can assist a shy kid in making a new friend. And, a dog can make camp feel like home.
Dogs embody the values that are front and center in the camp community. They love unconditionally, they don’t care what you look like or what you are wearing, they are inclusive and accepting, and they don’t judge. Tails up for the camp dog!
What I did on my summer vacation
Every Tips on Trips and Camps advisor spends part of their summer checking in with several of the camps we represent. I spent a week in New Hampshire and Vermont this past July visiting some of our camps, including a few that are new to us for 2020. We share our findings, so we all have the most up to date information possible. Together our advisors visited about 100 camps this summer, and we are so excited to tell you about the ones that just right for your child!
I’m not sure my fellow advisors agree with me, but I love eating at the camps I visit. I have food allergies, and it’s great to experience how well the camps care for children that have dietary preferences or restrictions. I’ve found that most camps have terrific tasting healthy food and have a lot of pride in the efforts of their kitchen staff. Every camp is aware of the many different ways people today, and they happily work with families to make sure they meet every camper’s needs.
I also really enjoy peeking into the bunks. Generally, camp directors bring us into tidy bunks, but occasionally we catch sight of a bunk that looks like a tornado went through, and you can imagine how the kids were in such a hurry to get to their next amazing activity. I swear you can feel the excitement they left behind in the chaos.
I’m already keeping my list of where I’ll visit next summer. Can’t wait!
Just like ice cream, there are many “flavors” of camps
I went to three different sleep away camps starting in elementary up through high school, and none of them were right. I’d never before or since had trouble making friends, but I didn’t feel like I fit in at any of those camps. And they were terrific high-quality camps that today as a camp advisor I have have no hesitation recommending. I went for eight weeks each summer, and that was a long time to feel out of sorts. All of my friends from home also attended sleep-away camps, and they all had great stories of fun and friendship which I wanted so very much for myself. I loved the idea of sleepaway camp, just not my sleepaway camps. Now as a camp advisor I know that there are camps for every type of child. I would have flourished at a laid-back, not too spirited, non-competitive place with lots of non-team sport options, and where the activities were mixed ages and selected by the campers. And isn’t it great that there camps like that? No matter your child’s personality or needs, there’s a camp for them.
Desperately Seeking Summer
The anticipation of summer not only brings the joy of seeing our kids off to camp but also reminds many of us of our own camp experiences. This never-ending winter has made me long for all the sights, sounds, and smells of summer. Do you feel the same? Take my short quiz to see how badly you need a summer day. Winner gets the hammock first.
- You seriously consider ordering cute label stickers for your clothing
- You spritz yourself in a bit of bug spray just for the smell
- Wet towels out of the washing machine make you feel nostalgic
- You asked the waiter for a bug juice cocktail at dinner last night
- You intentionally smudge a little sunblock on your clothes before you leave the house
However you prepare for summer, Tips on Trips and Camps advisors are here to help you find just the right sleepaway camp or overnight program. It’s not too late to find great options for this summer, and it’s not too early to look for summer 2020.
Camp Websites: “They all look the same to me!”
“They all look the same” is a phrase I hear a lot as a summer program advisor from families who are looking at camp websites. Once you have narrowed your camp search to those that have the basic characteristics you are looking for: size, location, facility, activities, etc, how then do you begin to differentiate them?
Besides speaking with a knowledgeable camp consultant from Tips on Trips and Camps, here are a few tips:
- Click deep into the website. Most programs have web pages describing their philosophy and values. These don’t pop out at you like activities and videos, but they are there if you keep clicking.
- Call the director to chat. It is astonishing how many of my parents choose a program without calling to speak with a director about the nuances and details you simply cannot get from websites and video.
- Call reference families. A call with at least one but preferably more families whose children have attended recently, who live in your town or nearby and who are close to your child’s age is essential to get another point of view about the camp. Ask questions like: What do you like most? and Where, if at all did the camp fall short of your expectations?
- Trust your gut. If a program seems too good to be true it probably should be eliminated. Websites are wonderful and contain lots of valuable information, but in the end remember they are a marketing tool. No camp is perfect. You are looking for the best fit which in most cases means you will have to prioritize. Put your non negotiable needs at the top of the list. Chances are that in order to get those for sure you will probably have to give on some of the less important “wants.”
I always say finding a camp should be fun, not stressful. Enjoy the process, but please look beyond the website!
What Did I Forget?
How can the calendar already say December?
My mile-long to do list is stuck in September!
The darkness each afternoon makes me long for the sun,
And also reminds me of one to-do I must get done:
It’s not the holiday planning, shopping, or celebrating,
It’s not the decorating, cooking, or ice skating –
It’s choosing a summer camp for each of my kids!
Sitting on their phones all summer heaven forbids.
But how will I get this giant job done?
Without any worries about whether I’ve found the “one?”
I know what I will do without delay –
I will call Tips on Trips and Camps! Yay!
My Tips advisor asks all the right questions,
And sends me an email with excellent suggestions.
Without much fuss, the decision is made!
I’m the best mom; I deserve a parade!
For all you parents who are worrying what to do,
Tips on Trips and Camps will pull you through!